MARRIAGE EVALUATION QUESTIONNAIRE
ANSWER TRUE OR FALSE FOR EACH STATEMENT

A QUIZ FOR WIVES
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1. I trust my husband with my thoughts and feelings.
2. I ‘m sure my husband is faithful to me
3. It’s unusual for my husband to do/say something he knows will embarrass me

4. My husband talks easily & often about his feelings

5. When I talk about myself, I feel like I have my husband’s complete attention
6. It’s easy for me to express myself & feel understood in my marriage
7. We rarely stay angry for long periods of time
8. My Husband & I rarely bicker
9. I feel safe expressing my angry feelings toward my husband
10. I rarely hide my true feelings to avoid a fight
11. I don’t feel controlled by my husband
12. We are able to compromise when we differ on issues
13. When important decisions have to be made, my needs and opinion count
14. There are a few things about me my husband would like to change
15. My husband treats me like an equal in our relationship
16. I get a lot of praise from my husband
17. I rarely, if ever feel married to a critical parent
18. We have a comfortable sexual relationship
19. I rarely, if ever, feel pressured to have sex when I’m not in the mood
20. I get affection outside and inside the bedroom
21. My husband cares about our emotional intimacy
22. My husband is my best friend
23. It’s easy for us to play and have fun together
24. I am willing to try activities that my husband enjoys
    

SCORING:
0 TO 6 FALSE: Your marriage is in good shape. Keep up the good work
7 to 12 FALSE: Your marriage could probably benefit from a tune-up
13 or MORE FALSE: Your marriage appears to need some work; you may want to consult a professional for counseling

This quiz was modified & adapted from the book:

Seven Secrets of a Happy Marriage
By Margery D. Rosen & editors of Ladies’ Home Journal
Workman Publishing, New York 2002

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